How to Fix a Bad Reputation

In your professional life

Step1

Assess the substance of the bad reputation. Is there any truth to it? Or are you the victim of jealousy or whiners?
Step2

Seek a second or third opinion from trusted colleagues to determine if there is any validity to your bad reputation.
Step3

Reconsider your managerial style if you are in a position of leadership. Could you make subtle changes? Are you a good communicator and listener? Do you give clear instructions? Are raises overdue?
Step4

If you determine that you need to improve a personal attribute, make a commitment to yourself to change your ways.
Step5

Apologize to employees, clients or customers if you realize that your behavior or words have hurt your professional relationship, and let them know you will work hard to improve the situation.
Step6

Tell those around you that you're trying to improve. Others will be impressed if you can admit to your own flaws, and they might have some good pointers.
Step7

Perform one act every single day that counteracts your bad reputation.
Step8

If the bad reputation is not your fault, find out where it originates. Mention the rumors in a direct but nonconfrontational way: "Burt, I heard that some folks think I am having an affair with Helen in graphics. I'm sure you know there's no truth to the matter." Most gossipmongers will clam up if confronted.

In your private life

Step1

Examine the way you treat others. Is there any truth to the bad reputation?
Step2

Seek a second opinion from your spouse, a trusted friend or a therapist. Ask if they have recommendations and listen carefully to their answers.
Step3

If you determine that you need to improve a personal attribute, make a commitment to yourself to change your ways.
Step4

Apologize to loved ones whom you have hurt and let them know you will work hard to improve the relationship.
Step5

Tell others that you're trying to improve. They can hold you to your commitment even when you lapse.
Step6

Perform one act every single day that counteracts your bad reputation.
Step7

If you are the victim of malicious gossip, address its source. Be firm yet nonconfrontational. The gossiper is probably jealous, and if you respond with anger or emotion, it will delight him or her no end.